In this episode, Kaylor Betts joins Michael Unbroken for a deep dive into modern masculinity, shame, and authenticity in 2024. They explore the challenges men face today, from toxic masculinity to over-feminization, while unpacking how to find the essential balance between strength and emotional awareness. The conversation tackles controversial topics like healthy shame versus toxic shame, the role of emotions in manhood, and how men can heal through achievement while maintaining authentic connections. Betts and Unbroken share personal insights from their transformative journeys, discussing everything from body image and social media presence to relationship dynamics and emotional regulation. This raw, unfiltered discussion challenges contemporary narratives about masculinity while offering practical wisdom for men seeking to build meaningful, powerful lives in an increasingly complex world.
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00:00 – INTRO
00:42 – Defining Manhood in 2024
01:41 – The Three Camps of Masculinity
10:11 – The Hyper-Masculine Movement
17:14 – Navigating Shame and Authenticity
32:02 – The Root of Personal Accountability
32:39 – Victimhood and Self-Deception
33:00 – Societal Expectations and Self-Improvement
34:14 – Gender Differences in Healing
35:02 – Men's Healing Through Achievement
36:27 – Women’s Healing Through Introspection
37:33 – The Importance of Gender-Specific Coaching
46:36 – The Consequences of Excuses
51:08 – The Power of Taking Action
54:47 – Embracing Rejection and Criticism
55:43 – The Reality of Online Criticism
58:14 – Final Thoughts on Masculinity and Personal Growth
01:00:47 – Where do you find Kaylor Betts?
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